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The Woman Who Has Herself

by Maria Harchanan Kaur

When a woman has herself

you can enter or leave her life

you can flatter or judge her

and she, she will receive or say goodbye to you kindly

and she will thank you and understand your shadows

because she already knows hers.

You probably won’t tolerate it and at the same time

you want to own it and you will end up walking away

from her if you don’t have the courage to respect her.

When a woman has herself

the Universe Dances at her feet, and She rises.

She becomes compassionate.

She chooses.

She is aware.

She gives and receives Love.

It is easy to recognize it.

The woman who has herself

she smiles in the sun as in the storm.

She celebrates life and understands death.

She lives and dances the processes.

She doesn’t have a hue, she’s a rainbow.

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Conscious Relationships

by Belinda Anderson

“If you want real, be prepared to do the work because relationships are full of speed bumps and different seasons. Great relationships aren’t great because they have no problems, they’re great because both people care enough about each other to make it work. Relationships are a great mirror for where your ‘stuff’ comes out, especially when you don’t want it to. This is when opportunity for growth arises, yet so many walk away at this moment rather than look at what the mirror is reflecting back to them. We are here on this planet to teach each other, our relationships are our greatest spiritual assignment. More are more of us are realizing how much our relationships are a reflection of how we feel about ourselves and what we need to heal. The truth about relationships is that we need to be prepared to ride the waves together, do the work individually and as a couple, love each other and choose each other. And, choose real not perfect. You want someone who says, “I know we’re not perfect, I still choose us.” And, “I know you’re not perfect, I still choose you.” And, “I know I’m not perfect, thank you for choosing me.” We must be careful not to confuse our ideas of “Conscious Relationship” for perfect relationship because there’s no such thing. The truth is, real long-term conscious relationships are a beautiful and messy experience. The only difference is there is a deeper commitment to personal awakening and self-awareness rather than external blame and a sense of helplessness.”

Frequency of Love and Sexuality

by The Pleiadians channeled by Barbara Marciniak in Bringers of the Dawn:

“This frequency that sexuality represents is a reminder of your godhood.

Very deep inside the mechanism of sexuality is a frequency that can be attained that has been sought after and misunderstood by many people.

It is called ORGASM.

The orgasm has been distorted from its original purpose. Your body has forgotten the cosmic orgasm of which it is capable because society has taught you for thousands of years that sexuality is bad.

You have been taught this in order for you to be controlled and to keep you from seeking the freedom available through sexuality.

Sexuality connects you with a frequency of ecstasy, which connects you back to your divine source and to information.💜

Sexuality has been given a bad name upon this planet, and that bad name is stored in your cellular memory.

It is necessary for you to clear the negativity surrounding sexuality.

The sexual parts of the body are avenues to pleasure that create frequencies that HEAL and stimulate the body and potentially lead it to its higher spiritual self.

Sexuality is so misunderstood on this planet that, when it is exchanged between two persons, very seldom is there an intent to connect spirituality with it.

Sexuality invokes a spirituality that is FREE and that looks at itself as a creator.

However, very seldom is sexuality used as a bridge to take you to higher levels of consciousness.

Spiritual realms are places of existence that the human body is locked away from.

Because sexuality was an opportunity for human beings to regain their memory, or to connect with their spiritual selves and spiritual creator, or to find an avenue to the spiritual realm that you are sealed off from, the churches came about and promoted sexuality for procreation.

Sexuality was promoted as something very bad. Women were told that sexuality was something they had to undergo to serve men and that they had no control over the birthing process.

You believe in general that you have no control over that portion of your body.

You must realize that only you decide whether you are going to birth a child or not. This is not such a complicated thing as you have been told.

Decision and intention are what bring the experience to your being. You can control whether you have a baby or not.

If woman had had this ability for the last several thousand years, and if she had been able to explore her sexual self without fear of having a child, perhaps men and women would have discovered that they were much freer than they had been told they were.

The discovery of the highest frequency of sexuality arises from the LOVE experience. It has nothing to do with relationships being either homosexual or heterosexual.

It has to do with two human beings bringing pleasure to one another in a way that opens frequencies of consciousness.

Love is the essence that is to be created in all relationships. If you love and honor someone, it doesn’t matter what your composition of density is.

What matters is the love vibration and how you explore this love.💜

Ideally, sexuality is explored through feelings. The third and fourth chakras connect you to the emotional and compassionate selves, which connect you to the spiritual self.

The spiritual self is the part of yourself that is multidimensional through which you exist in many forms simultaneously.

It is your assignment and agreement and task to be aware of all these realities in the identity that you are. When you are aware, you can time into the different frequencies, remember who you are, and change the vibratory rate of this universe.

Certain mystery schools have held some of the knowledge about the potential uses of sexuality in secrecy.

You are electromagnetic creatures, and when you come together physically with another human creature, you bond your electromagnetic frequencies together.

When your frequencies are attuned and joined by a LOVE frequency, incredible things can occur.💜

Thousands of years ago, when society had more of a matriarchal view in certain areas of the planet, Goddess energy was coming through and working with certain individuals.

The female understood her power, her intuition, her feeling center, her connection, and her desire to create life.

She also understood that she never had to conceive a child if it was not her intention to do so.

In order for the patriarchal society to come full circle and prepare Earth for this shift in consciousness, female energy needed to take a back seat.

So female power, energy, and understanding of sexuality were suppressed.

In modern times the past two thousand years-it came to be upon the planet that women believed they had no control over when they could have children, that sexuality was deemed bad and disgusting, and that sex was taught to be performed only within the rights of marriages and so on. All of this was a marketing program.

Some of the present-day marketing programs to create an even greater fear of sexuality and its expression are the new diseases: AIDS, herpes, and all the other things.

You read about these things in your newspapers and become frightened of your own expression, frightened of your own intuition, and frightened of your own joy.

Before DNA was rearranged, the way many people reached the higher realms and were able to climb the ladders of themselves and reach into off-planet frequencies was by electrornagnetically bonding through love.

They created a rocketship-like experience to propel them out into other systems of reality. This has been one of the best-kept secrets upon the planet.

You were left with the frequency of the orgasmic experience in sexuality so that you could remember your higher identity.

When this energy or history of yourself is revealed and you discover who you are, you will unite many bodies of your personal multidimensional identity in your physical form.

To receive the full impact of the gridwork of your identity, let the twelve helixes fit in your body and allow the light-encoded filaments to rearrange themselves.

This process has to do with the mental body, which is of course connected to the physical body. The emotional body, which is connected to the spiritual body, is the body that everybody wants to skip.

You say, “I want to evolve. I want a rapid acceleration, but I do not want to go through the feeling center to do it.”

You are connected to your multidimensional selves through your feelings, and it is in your feelings that you primarily get stuck.

Accept that your “stuff” comes up for a reason. Many of you would like to bury your “stuff” and throw it out in the trash as if it is something ugly and not who you are. This “stuff” is the shadow portion of your identity that you don’t like to deal with or accept.

We understand that sometimes, when something comes up, you label it and say, “I hate this part of myself. I want to just finish it and sweep it under the rug and forget it. I’m finished with this stuff.”

Guess what. Your “stuff”-your issues-are the treasures of your life. They are how you learn. You have agreed to mutate, to pull light into your body, and to birth the Family of Light on this planet.

Since light is information, you must deal with all of the things you have hidden from yourself.

Sexuality is the primary issue because it is the secret self-the self you hide from.

Society has said to you, “This is good. This is bad. You are to do this. You are not to do this.” Who gave you these laws? Who gave you any of your laws to begin with?

Sexuality is a KEY. It is a doorway to the higher realms of consciousness. 💜

As you redefine yourselves, and the light-encoded filaments give you a new definition of yourselves, you are going to change who you are sexually as well.

Frequency is carried from you to another person particularly if there is a LOVE BONDING.💜

A love bonding does not mean that you are going to cleave to one another forever.

It simply means that you are in a relationship for however long you deem that relationship appropriate in that you honor one another and exchange energies and let the energies flow as if through open circuitry.

When you do not LOVE another and you are not bonded, there is NO EXCHANGE; the circuitry does not open. It does not mean that you cannot have good sex; it simply means that the circuitry is not open.

As this electrical current is raised higher and higher, there are greater heights of orgasmic experience that the human body can receive because the nervous system is able to handle the higher ecstatic frequencies.

The nervous system will determine how you express yourself and how you feel. If you have a poorly evolved nervous system, your sexual experience will be very limited because the nervous system conducts the electrical current.

The orgasmic experience brings about a healing and realignment of the physical body.

Eventually, you will not be able to get close to or be with someone who is not operating at the same voltage you are. It won’t work or be comfortable. You won’t fit because you won’t be able to merge vibrationally.

You will eventually understand the importance of vibrational nourishment as you begin to link sexually.

Linking sexually is only one way of merging with people who are moving at the same or a compatible voltage rate.💜

Sexual vibration has been your link with your cosmic identity, but this whole concept has been completely misunderstood and lost.

There were those who did not want you to be in tune with these frequencies because the sexual frequencies could have taken You to areas of liberation where you would have begun to figure things out.

Sexuality was left as a frequency for you to ride through the nervous system and connect with the higher mind by going out of your body. If you had been told that this was the route out, who could have controlled or manipulated you?

The population must clear the negative connotations and judgments that have colored your sexual experience for eons. You must make peace with sex in order to integrate the frequencies and identity.

Things have been manipulated and given a boundary of limitation so that the truth of sexuality has been kept from you.

You have been told that you can procreate with it and have orgasms, but you have not been told that you can OPEN FREQUENCIES with it.

You can come into contact and use it as a method of remembering who you are and altering the vibrational frequency of your body.

Your expression of sexuality will have a whole new dimension. You will evolve and grow, provided that you have a PARTNER who is willing to take the same route and to be that open.”

Becoming The Chalice by Maya Luna

“I wanted to know Truth

So I stopped looking

I Opened my body

Until Truth found

Me

I wanted to know Love

So I stopped missing it’s

Absence

I Savored every texture

In the wilderness of this

Moment

Until finally Love revealed

Me

I wanted to know Power

So I stopped pushing my will

Onto reality

I Let Go from deep inside

Until the Power moved

Me

I wanted to know Passion

So I stopped reaching for

Perfection

I let my heart melt

Into the flame

Of Life’s longing

Until Passion became one with

Me

I wanted to know Creation

So I merged with the pulse

At the core of Existence

I wanted to know Innocence

So I Drank my own

Presence

I wanted to know God

So I dropped the arrow of My body

And finally remembered to

Receive

They told me waking up

Was a complicated affair

They told me to cut myself

Apart

Who would have thought that

Flesh and blood contained

The Mystery of Existence

Would would have thought

That the Elixir was

Inside me

They wrote all the books

And gave all the talks

I never knew my own

Body

Was

The Teacher”

c/o Deep Feminine Mystery School

www.deepfemininemysteryschool.com

Your Energy … Your Smile

I said your hair looked amazing but what I really wanted to say was… “Your energy sparks a little bit of something in mine, your smile warms my heart, and when you laugh, I just have to laugh too, it’s like a bubbling stream of fresh water running through my soul. I feel like the sun is shining on me when you’re near and when I leave you, sad as it is, I feel like I’ve been charged, plugged into the mains for an infusion of fizz and life.” But I said “I love your shoes instead.” I hope you heard, what I really meant.

Donna Ashworth

Matt Helm’s She Trusts Me

She’s always wanted a secure man, a powerful man.

Her nervous system relaxes in my presence 

after years of being on high alert.

Constantly feeling unsafe and unseen,  she shapeshifts.

She’s been judged, manipulated, lied to, taught to please, 

and be what others want, especially men.

Enough of this.  

She’s beyond enough.  She’s powerful.  She is incredible.  She’s extraordinary.

She trusts me because I see her with these eyes, 

with the entirety of my beingness and I let her know in every way I know how to communicate it … that I see her.

She trusts me because I am an uncaged man in my power.

Freedom is my Essence.

I don’t react, I respond.

She trusts me because I invite her wild feminine essence out to play and I can hold it.

She trusts me because  I am genuinely curious about her, I have done my inner work.

She trusts me and extends her sacred invitation to hold her complete surrender.

Her exquisite surrender, a wealth beyond all wealth, to hold a women’s deep surrender.

Holding her grief, her longing, her sacred rage, her primal throbbing, and her dripping ecstasy.

Every women wants to go to her own truth, to let go completely into the flow of love

But not just with any man.

Sadly most women will never experience this level of trust and will never completely surrender.

To experience this level of trust and surrender requires a man to reclaim his essential nature, his powerful masculine essence.

She trusts me because I have made the sacred journey back to myself.

She trusts me because I have worked through my core wounding, 

because I have faced my deepest pain and reclaimed my true self.

She feels safe because I have spent thousands of hours in psychoanalysis, meditation, Yoga, with countless coaches, mystics, teachers, shamans, plant medicine, and mediums.

She feels safe with me because I know that at one point in my life I wasn’t safe to her or myself.

She feels safe with me because I don’t want to take from her, 

I want to give in sacred union.

She feels safe because she knows I’ve got her. 

I claim her heart.

Learn Her by Cody Bret

“Take some time and learn what words, acts, expressions, gifts, and physical touches are the most meaningful and desired by your partner.

In other words, show your appreciation and love to your partner in the ways that mean the most to them. 

When you are in her presence, your little acts of kindness become extremely important.

For example, don’t give her flowers on Valentine’s Day because that is what you’re “supposed” to do … Give her flowers on a Wednesday because you thought of her on your way home from work.

Grab some blankets and pillows from the house and take her out on a hillside and watch the stars with her in the back of a pick up truck with the two of you looking into each others eyes and having in depth conversations under the moonlight. 

Or get up at 8am and meet her at a local diner on a Saturday morning and talk about her life goals over some homemade pancakes.

Little things like this will always help your partner feel known, valued, and loved.

Take my advice and take care of her, because life doesn’t bless you with a good woman twice.”

I Believe in Men by Rishima

“I believe in Sensitive and Kind Men.

I believe in the mystical men who believe in themselves.

I believe in men who seek temperance and peace inside them.

I believe in men poets, dreamers, magicians, writers, alchemists, artists, teachers, and angels.

I believe in men who like to dance and sing and make life a celebration.

I believe in men who embrace their wounded inner child, listen to him and embrace him true.

I believe in men who want to heal and help others to heal.

I believe in men who refuse to be slaves to their own wound and that despite the pain, they clean it and heal it patiently, with love and courage.

I believe in men who come from the stars and remember the power of their wings, the power of their hands and the power of their heart.

I believe in men who know of intuition and use it as their compass.

I believe in men who share freedom because they are free and do not know another way to live.

I believe in the men protective of women’s energy, who know how to read the look of their beloved and who do not intend to change it, simply accompany it wisely on their flight.

I believe in full men who don’t need anything from outside because they already know that everything has it inside.

I believe in men who make fire when they are cold, that take refuge in water when they are thirsty.

I believe in men with truthful eyes they see themselves and that’s why they love and respect every creature exists on earth.

I believe in men, perfectly imperfect, because it is in that imperfection is where they also find their beauty.

I believe in sensitive men who know how to receive and give love in balance, who listen and who also speak, those who live and let them live.

I believe in men who live sexuality as sacred, because they know that it is a wonderful gift.

I believe in men with clear feelings, which are accessible.

I believe in men who walk barefoot and speak to the plants.

I believe in the tender and wild men at the same time.

I believe in the sacred male and in all the divinity they have stood.”

Sex then Love

The simple truth is that sex is the starting point of love. Sex is the beginning of the journey to love. The origin, the Gangotri of the Ganges of Love, is sex, passion – and everybody behaveslike its enemy. Every culture, every religion, every guru, every seer has attacked this Gangotri, this source, and the river has remained bottled up. The hue and cry has always been, ”Sex is sin. Sex is irreligious. Sex is poison,” but we never seem to realize that ultimately it is the sex energy itself that travels to and reaches the inner ocean of love. Love is the transformation of sex energy. The flowering of love is from the seed of sex.

Osho